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01-08-2011, 01:20 AM
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Whenever I am chatting with a girl online in a chatroom or a website and we really hit it off. The girls usually send me pictures of them. They usually ask for one back, and like a bitch, I send them a picture of some good looking dude from the internet.

I get terrified to send them pictures of me, because I get scared they will reject me and stop talking to me. I mean, to be honest, I think I'm ugly. And the worst fear I have, is to hit it off with a girl , and then send her a picture and have her start acting colder or ignoring me.

I know this is probably not gonna happen but I'm afraid to send girls my pictures, because these girls are usually hot. Should I just man the fuck up and start sending girls my pictures? I mean, do you think if the girls think I am ugly, they will see past it and accept me for who I am and my great personality, or do you think I will get my heart broken the first few times I start actually sending my picture? Should I just risk getting rejected by sending my real picture, even if the girl is in another country and I know she will never meet up with me either way?

Kind of an ego thing guys, help me out if you can. Also, I'm a minority, so I'm afraid if these girls see that I am a not so good looking minority, they will reject me. I gotta save my ego, as it was destroyed in high school and in my teenage years.

I know I should have the "who cares what they think" attitude, but I was brutally rejected a lot in high school so I am terrified to send girls my pictures. I am not deformed or anything, its just girls never check me out, and I have been called ugly by hot girls before, so thats my reason.







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01-08-2011, 05:50 AM
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I send them a picture of some good looking dude from the internet.
But the point of chatting is (at least for me): Getting us to meetup, and after that hopefully banging each other.
Sedning some other guys picture will never lead to that, so I don't see the point. You might then aswell not go chatting online anymore.
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I gotta save my ego, as it was destroyed in high school and in my teenage years.
Better leave your ego alone, and not care about it. That's what works best for me. The perception of the ego, is 100% of the time coloured anymways + often wrong or half of a truth at best.

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01-08-2011, 06:06 AM
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You are lucky to have girls willingly send their pictures.

I never get pics unless I ask for them.

Just take lots of pictures of yourself, have a friend photoshop the dry spots out of your lips and eyecolor and the blackness from underneath your eyes. You will do good. Use black and white aswell and all the shitty tricks women use to cover bad skin (eg by over contrasting a black n white pic)

It helps if you are well groomed for the pics, pay attention to lightning. You will get it right and learn which pics get the most good responses.

It's always a matter of showing and not showing stuff in pics.

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01-08-2011, 06:27 AM
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stop meeting girls online

it's pathetic and twisted







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01-08-2011, 08:42 AM
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That's what's fucked up about online stuff.

If you hit it off with a girl in real life you at least already know that your looks are acceptable to her.


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Whenever I am chatting with a girl online in a chatroom or a website and we really hit it off. The girls usually send me pictures of them. They usually ask for one back, and like a bitch, I send them a picture of some good looking dude from the internet.

I get terrified to send them pictures of me, because I get scared they will reject me and stop talking to me. I mean, to be honest, I think I'm ugly. And the worst fear I have, is to hit it off with a girl , and then send her a picture and have her start acting colder or ignoring me.

I know this is probably not gonna happen but I'm afraid to send girls my pictures, because these girls are usually hot. Should I just man the fuck up and start sending girls my pictures? I mean, do you think if the girls think I am ugly, they will see past it and accept me for who I am and my great personality, or do you think I will get my heart broken the first few times I start actually sending my picture? Should I just risk getting rejected by sending my real picture, even if the girl is in another country and I know she will never meet up with me either way?

Kind of an ego thing guys, help me out if you can. Also, I'm a minority, so I'm afraid if these girls see that I am a not so good looking minority, they will reject me. I gotta save my ego, as it was destroyed in high school and in my teenage years.

I know I should have the "who cares what they think" attitude, but I was brutally rejected a lot in high school so I am terrified to send girls my pictures. I am not deformed or anything, its just girls never check me out, and I have been called ugly by hot girls before, so thats my reason.


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01-08-2011, 12:34 PM
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stop meeting girls online

it's pathetic and twisted
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01-08-2011, 04:16 PM
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But the point of chatting is (at least for me): Getting us to meetup, and after that hopefully banging each other.
What if I am talking to a girl that I know I will never meet up with (one that lives in another state) Should I still send her my real picture? I mean, if there is not gonna be a meet up, I guess I could still send her my real picture right?







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01-08-2011, 04:17 PM
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just send a pic of you dressed up nice.

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01-08-2011, 05:33 PM
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What if I am talking to a girl that I know I will never meet up with (one that lives in another state) Should I still send her my real picture?
You could send her a picture of Gunwitch's cock for all it matters because you won't be meeting her. I wouldn't even bother talking to chicks out of town because there is zero chance of you being able to fuck them.


Why don't you make a picture of your face for your avatar for whatever chat program you use? This way chicks will see what you look like right away and you don't have to worry about them not liking how you look later on.

If you do online dating you SHOULD have clear pictures of yourself (including clothed full body shots) so chicks can right away tell if they are attracted or not.

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01-08-2011, 05:41 PM
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You could send her a picture of Gunwitch's cock for all it matters because you won't be meeting her. I wouldn't even bother talking to chicks out of town because there is zero chance of you being able to fuck them.
I just talk to them for fun on those college chat rooms. Thats why I'm wondering if I should send my picture even if it just for fun.

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Why don't you make a picture of your face for your avatar for whatever chat program you use? This way chicks will see what you look like right away and you don't have to worry about them not liking how you look later on.
No avatars in the chat room I use.







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01-08-2011, 05:54 PM
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I just talk to them for fun on those college chat rooms. Thats why I'm wondering if I should send my picture even if it just for fun.
If the chick asks you what you look like, I would. Otherwise, I wouldn't.


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No avatars in the chat room I use.
Unless, these are dating chat rooms, I wouldn't even bother trying to pick up chicks in them. All the ones that aren't fat probably already have boyfriends. Online dating sites are better because at least the chicks are presumably looking for a boyfriend. I think you might have said in a different thread that you do online dating too. If so, then I say screw the chat rooms altogether and focus more on that.

If you are in college, join some clubs and practice talking to women. If you are not in college, join some meetup groups and do the same thing. Don't hit on them or ask them out (you will get quickly labeled as the creepy guy if you starting gaming every chick in the club) -- just practice talking to them. The more comfortable you are with them the more your confidence will build and the easier everything will be for you. If you don't have enough friends, try to make some new friends with some of the guys.

Bottom line: Get offline and meet people in real life.

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01-10-2011, 10:45 AM
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I know this is probably not gonna happen but I'm afraid to send girls my pictures, because these girls are usually hot.
^ actually thinks hes talking to hot girls in chatrooms



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01-10-2011, 11:01 AM
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^ actually thinks hes talking to hot girls in chatrooms


The "hot chicks" in reality probably look more like this:









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01-10-2011, 12:46 PM
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That's what's fucked up about online stuff.

If you hit it off with a girl in real life you at least already know that your looks are acceptable to her.
i did a LOT of online game about a year ago and one of the first things you learn is...keep it short as possible to get an actual date/meeting with the girl. Too many emails and too much chat is for suckers. Keep the first meet short just to check out they are not some fucking crank - you will also get a very good idea if something will happen sexually

I met a few girls blind (they had my pic but i didn't have theirs) which is risky but I thought what the fuck I can always walk away...

Expect girls to look a bit different from their pics and expect them to look like their worst pic. Some girls are ok but take good photos, others are good looking but have bad photos. Once went to a date expecting a 7 at most from the girls pic and when I saw her in real life she was shit hot ...a 9.5 - I fucked it up with her as I was surprised by her beauty

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01-10-2011, 12:52 PM
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stop meeting girls online

it's pathetic and twisted
yes and no

at its worst online makes real life dating, approaching, socialising seem like heaven. online can be utterly mercenary

at its best if you live in a fairly isolated area online is a godsend

the main trouble is the quality of the girls online...you always think what is wrong with this girl, why is she online? x10 if she is remotely sexy

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01-10-2011, 12:54 PM
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If the chick asks you what you look like, I would. Otherwise, I wouldn't.




Unless, these are dating chat rooms, I wouldn't even bother trying to pick up chicks in them. All the ones that aren't fat probably already have boyfriends. Online dating sites are better because at least the chicks are presumably looking for a boyfriend. I think you might have said in a different thread that you do online dating too. If so, then I say screw the chat rooms altogether and focus more on that.

If you are in college, join some clubs and practice talking to women. If you are not in college, join some meetup groups and do the same thing. Don't hit on them or ask them out (you will get quickly labeled as the creepy guy if you starting gaming every chick in the club) -- just practice talking to them. The more comfortable you are with them the more your confidence will build and the easier everything will be for you. If you don't have enough friends, try to make some new friends with some of the guys.

Bottom line: Get offline and meet people in real life.
good advice







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01-10-2011, 07:12 PM
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Holy shit, one of the hot girls that I sent the picture of the male model dude just emailed me and wants to talk to me on skype or over the phone. Should I just ignore the bitch? Since she is down to talk and I saw her facebook, she is legit. But since I sent her a fake pic, should I just ignore her? I'm never sending a fake pic again, this girl is hot and lives in about 20 miles away from me. I guess I should just talk to her over skype not showing my face, but the thing is, she is going to tell me she wants to hang out......what should I do? I wanna talk to her just for practice because I have never talked to such a hot girl. I mean she is no model or anything, but she is looks like on of those really cute good girls. I wanna just have conversation with her and make excuse when she asks me out.

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01-10-2011, 11:04 PM
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Stop sending pictures over the internet, fake or not.

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01-10-2011, 11:24 PM
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When you chat with them and they request a picture, write:

"the picture your about to see will send you flying off your chair"


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01-11-2011, 06:31 AM
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Holy shit, one of the hot girls that I sent the picture of the male model dude just emailed me and wants to talk to me on skype or over the phone. Should I just ignore the bitch?
Yea just ignore her and play hard to get until she hates you and doesnt talk to you anymore. This way you can continue being a virgin forever. PUAs do this and it is so high value.

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01-11-2011, 08:44 AM
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Yea just ignore her and play hard to get until she hates you and doesnt talk to you anymore. This way you can continue being a virgin forever. PUAs do this and it is so high value.

Legit.

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