screening for clinically insane women

[jankinoff]

i am getting the vibe that the only girls i can pickup are insane. perhaps it's because the only girls that will let me do my thing (physical touching within 20 seconds, romantic touching in like 5 minutes) are truly sluts in every sense of the word. i've had 3 bipolar, bisexual girls in a row now. perhaps they're just a reflection of my own personality (I'm not bisexual, but I'm definitely not neurologically typical).

there is one sane, rich, cute girl that likes me, but i feel kinda inferior going into that situation. sure, i could fuck her, but that's where it ends. it's too bad i'm such a colossal fuck up. PU theory may have caused me to flush my last year down the drain. what if i had all my shit together like i used to AND had some cute girl drooling over my dick? what an amazing life that would be, but instead, i spent the last year indulging in D&A, learning social skills, and fucking completely insane women your mom would kick out of the house as soon as she saw them.

i have gained nothing as a PU theory success story candidate (from 2 lays to 8 lays in under a year). i feel like more of a burnout than ever, actually.

The major epiphanies of the last 8 months:

girls like guys who:
-dress well
-are friendly
-look them directly in the eyes
-touch them
-have lots of friends
-can do the social chitter chatter thing
-money probably helps, too, but only because it gives you a fuckton of confidence.

wowowowowoow, did i really need to listen to 20 hours of some fat balding blonde man to realize this?

also, here's another realization: i don't have enough mental organization to handle an active social life and career/academia related things. it's as if i need to be a shut-in to succeed in those areas. honestly, while i am happier for brief periods of time when i'm pursuing some girl, it does not touch the overall satisfaction i get from getting paid or acing a class/creating new ideas.

[TheNatural]

I think every guy goes through a phase in his life where he wants to run around fucking sluts. I did. That whole "Madonna/Whore Complex" thing has some validity.

The things I'd look at are:

1.) Why do you feel inferior to the women you think you'd be happier with? Work on yourself there. You'll never hook up or sustain a relationship with a woman if you don't feel like her equal.

2.) Where are you meeting these women? Clubs and certain kinds of social scenes tend to attract psycho validation whores, aka sluts. Then there's an abundance of them online. Basically if she's looking to fuck a stranger quickly and isn't shy about it, she's probably fucked in the head.

3.) What qualities are you actually looking for in women? If you're priortizing looks, easy access to sex, an outgoing extroverted personality, and a strong desire to please/manipulate you before you really know her, then you're going to be screening for some damaged goods. If you're putting looks and sex above all else, you're setting yourself up for drama.

4.) How easily are you letting women reject you? The "shit tests" thread might be enlightening to you. You could be flunking the shit tests and waiting games that "good girls" know to use to seperate themselves from the crazy skanks. Skanks are so hungry for validation that they don't really bother with shit tests.

5.) Is it possible you might find yourself hooking up with crazy whores because those are the women you find most interesting? Probably because of their looks, sex, and wild personalities? If so, do some work on yourself and figure out what it is you REALLY want in a girl, then screen for that.

Be really, really careful with the psycho whores. They tend to run with some really bad people and may do things to really hurt you or fuck up your life. I got the number of one such girl one time. A few weeks later she got her boyfriend murdered over $12 and drugs he didn't have, then was killed herself because she was a witness. Turned out she was involved in all sorts of bad stuff. Sure, she was hot, but hot doesn't mean much.

[Midnight]

You can usually see red flags more sub-consciously with girls. Like when something just doesn't "feel right," my observations have found my feelings to be correct eventually.

[colver84]

I think the main thing to do is withhold the affection and romance. Too much affection and romance early on will usually weird out clinically sane girls. By contrast it will make clinically insane girls fall in love with you in five minutes. And when they are in love with you they don't let go.

The other advantage is that by not acting affectionate/romantic you will no longer feel afterwards like you led them on and it will be easier for you to walk away.

But then Ive noticed that psycho girls tend to avoid guys who are more aloof and those who just seeem like they want sex because they realise these guys will be difficult to manipulate and can walk away easily.

Another thing which is gold in dating situations is to limit contact. If the girl bombards you with texts she is definitely a psycho because one of the hallmarks of psychos is lack of self control. Take a few days to respond to each text and see what happens. Most likely youll get half a dozen texts in the 2-3 day interval.

As Doc Love says (and i think some of the stuff he says is actually pretty accurate) psychos dont respond to challenge.

[TheNatural]

Originally Posted by Midnight

You can usually see red flags more sub-consciously with girls. Like when something just doesn't "feel right," my observations have found my feelings to be correct eventually.

+1

And sometimes the red flags are obvious and she's waving them around with pride, but guys will overlook them because they're horny and just thinking "I'm about to fuck this hot girl!" I've done that with more crazy girls than I want to admit.

You've got to develop standards that include screening out the nuts.

[jankinoff]

Originally Posted by TheNatural

+1

And sometimes the red flags are obvious and she's waving them around with pride, but guys will overlook them because they're horny and just thinking "I'm about to fuck this hot girl!" I've done that with more crazy girls than I want to admit.

You've got to develop standards that include screening out the nuts.

My ex literally told me she was bipolar and had been to a mental hospital the day before we hooked up. Hey, at least she was honest. I think she's probably gonna kill herself someday.

Picking up crazies is like shooting fish in a barrel, though. It's not something to take pride in. I now know that there is this certain frazzled look that women with these disorders (bipolar/schizophrenia) sometimes have.

[smithjohn9426]

Originally Posted by jankinoff

My ex literally told me she was bipolar and had been to a mental hospital the day before we hooked up. Hey, at least she was honest. I think she's probably gonna kill herself someday.

Picking up crazies is like shooting fish in a barrel, though. It's not something to take pride in. I now know that there is this certain frazzled look that women with these disorders (bipolar/schizophrenia) sometimes have.

I've met this one chick at a bar and she said she and her two girlfriends here met at the same hospital. At first I didn't believe her but that pissed her off and she left. It was only later that I figured out she was telling the truth. She had that irritated thinking look about her. And I learned from experience that a lot of these crazies tend to be really open about their disorder.

But I wonder, how are bipolar chicks in bed?

Worse case scenario is when they call rape, however, such as what happened to Kobe:

http://www.nndb.com/people/480/000091207/

[Nicholaus]

Originally Posted by jankinoff

i am getting the vibe that the only girls i can pickup are insane. perhaps it's because the only girls that will let me do my thing (physical touching within 20 seconds, romantic touching in like 5 minutes) are truly sluts in every sense of the word. i've had 3 bipolar, bisexual girls in a row now. perhaps they're just a reflection of my own personality (I'm not bisexual, but I'm definitely not neurologically typical).

there is one sane, rich, cute girl that likes me, but i feel kinda inferior going into that situation. sure, i could fuck her, but that's where it ends. it's too bad i'm such a colossal fuck up. PU theory may have caused me to flush my last year down the drain. what if i had all my shit together like i used to AND had some cute girl drooling over my dick? what an amazing life that would be, but instead, i spent the last year indulging in D&A, learning social skills, and fucking completely insane women your mom would kick out of the house as soon as she saw them.

i have gained nothing as a PU theory success story candidate (from 2 lays to 8 lays in under a year). i feel like more of a burnout than ever, actually.

The major epiphanies of the last 8 months:

girls like guys who:
-dress well
-are friendly
-look them directly in the eyes
-touch them
-have lots of friends
-can do the social chitter chatter thing
-money probably helps, too, but only because it gives you a fuckton of confidence.

wowowowowoow, did i really need to listen to 20 hours of some fat balding blonde man to realize this?

also, here's another realization: i don't have enough mental organization to handle an active social life and career/academia related things. it's as if i need to be a shut-in to succeed in those areas. honestly, while i am happier for brief periods of time when i'm pursuing some girl, it does not touch the overall satisfaction i get from getting paid or acing a class/creating new ideas.

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If you stop touching complete strangers within 5 minutes, then you will meet some normal girls, it's that simple. Stop thinking about it as a guy/girl thing, and think about it as a you/complete stranger thing.


If a complete stranger, guy or girl, walked up and started touching you right away, that would feel creepy. So how do you think normal girls feel when you do it?


Only fucked up girls will be into it, and unfortunately there are a lot of them out there.


None of that shit you listed matters. The seduction community tries to make lists like that about what girls like. People, not just girls, like other people who do what they want, regardless of whether of it is "supposed to be" what other people like. So if you don't want to dress well, then don't. There are no lists for what girls like. Just do what you like, and girls that are best suited for you will notice.

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[jankinoff]

Originally Posted by smithjohn9426

I've met this one chick at a bar and she said she and her two girlfriends here met at the same hospital. At first I didn't believe her but that pissed her off and she left. It was only later that I figured out she was telling the truth. She had that irritated thinking look about her. And I learned from experience that a lot of these crazies tend to be really open about their disorder.

But I wonder, how are bipolar chicks in bed?

Worse case scenario is when they call rape, however, such as what happened to Kobe:

http://www.nndb.com/people/480/000091207/

They are great. Just never make them your gf ever because during the manic period, they literally get high from sleeping with strangers (HMMMM).

[smithjohn9426]

Originally Posted by jankinoff

They are great. Just never make them your gf ever because during the manic period, they literally get high from sleeping with strangers (HMMMM).

Check.

[Ssandro]

of course you're exactly filtering for idiots by touching up random girls, then going for the ones who respond

it's mainly only the idiot girls who love it straight away, but the downside is that they're idiots

The best way to filter out idiots is to talk to them at first instead of just touching random strangers, then you realise pretty soon who's an idiot

Also more attractive and confident girls almost always love to do some of the chasing, or have at least have an active role, they want to impress you first

It's only girls who have nothing to impress you with who don't have to do some of the chasing.

You say you're a little autistic and had some trouble socialising. It seems like you're looking for a short cut for that.

It's better for you to do some normal socialising and conversation. If you like talking to a girl then that's a good they're not a complete weirdo

[Eckhart Tolle]

Do not be attached to the pain body that a woman has.

[TehHunter]

You're now aware that ALL PUA methods are directed to pull girls like that, why do you think all of them are misogynistic and don't want to have serious relationships ? They only meet canon fodder and women that are almost as fucked up as they are

[TheNatural]

Originally Posted by TehHunter

You're now aware that ALL PUA methods are directed to pull girls like that, why do you think all of them are misogynistic and don't want to have serious relationships ? They only meet canon fodder and women that are almost as fucked up as they are

THIS!

[slowpoke]

Originally Posted by TheNatural

THIS!

+1

[PUA Comic]

Only clinically insane women enjoy sex. The rest of them only have sex with you to get something from you. Female orgasms are a myth.

[smithjohn9426]

Originally Posted by PUA Comic

Only clinically insane women enjoy sex. The rest of them only have sex with you to get something from you. Female orgasms are a myth.

Okay I lol'ed.

[onenatural]

Originally Posted by smithjohn9426

Okay I lol'ed.

he's right

[Kok]

Originally Posted by jankinoff

i've had 3 bipolar, bisexual girls in a row now.

And this is a problem because?

[jankinoff]

Originally Posted by Kok

And this is a problem because?

The bipolar part is grating as fuck. Bisexuality I can deal with, but it also has it's downfalls because women offer them something you cannot possibly give them. A straight, neurotypical girl would be great.

[EatCakeAndDie]

I think most women are insane.... or what about all of them?

[gerad]

1. Ignore phone calls
2. Talk about other women
3. Do the things that she says annoy her
4. When she talks, stop listenting
5. Check other women out
6. Say something in a negative way, soon after, say the same thing in a positive way, if she agrees with both, shes not honest or not listening
7. Ask her ex boyfriends about her
8. Ask her family about her
9. Report IOIs from other women
10. Ask her to do stupid things that you know she will think are stupid, see if she does them

[gravitycantforget]

Originally Posted by PUA Comic

Only clinically insane women enjoy sex. The rest of them only have sex with you to get something from you. Female orgasms are a myth.

I'll add a LOL - I have to say that I've made nearly every girl/woman I've had sex with ...orgasm. Just bragging!

[gravitycantforget]

Originally Posted by Kok

And this is a problem because?

Thats like having 6 girls - why the complaint?

[gerad]

All insane women have a look in there eyes. Its like a glass eye look.

[Count Sodomia]

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BOW DOWN TO ME

[wheelbarrow]

ask them if they like sodomy, if they say YES, pull down their panties, point at their penis and say "BUSTED!"

[Dimitri]

Franco in his Manual of Seduction gives the following:

How to recognize a psychologically disturbed woman:

Sign 1: If she can’t accept anything good and pleasant that you want to give her or that you want to do with her, that woman is surely disturbed.

Sign 2: If she is not able to give anything to others, behaves scornfully towards others or tries to profit using manipulation, sex or any other mean without worrying in the least about others, bring her to bed and then dump her.

Sign 3: She has a history of depression, alcoholism, drug abuse, bulimia, anorexia or self-punishment.

Sign 4: She has a history of repeatedly failed love relationships with mentally and physically abusive men.

Sign 5: She is unable to enjoy sex in a natural way.

Sign 6: She has problems of psychological dependence or she wants to always be at the center of attention.

Sign 7: The last but not the least important. There are women who live according to just one rule: “I don’t do absolutely anything if I don’t feel like doing it right now.”

[onenatural]

Originally Posted by Dimitri

Franco in his Manual of Seduction gives the following:

How to recognize a psychologically disturbed woman:

Sign 1: If she can’t accept anything good and pleasant that you want to give her or that you want to do with her, that woman is surely disturbed.

Sign 2: If she is not able to give anything to others, behaves scornfully towards others or tries to profit using manipulation, sex or any other mean without worrying in the least about others, bring her to bed and then dump her.

Sign 3: She has a history of depression, alcoholism, drug abuse, bulimia, anorexia or self-punishment.

Sign 4: She has a history of repeatedly failed love relationships with mentally and physically abusive men.

Sign 5: She is unable to enjoy sex in a natural way.

Sign 6: She has problems of psychological dependence or she wants to always be at the center of attention.

Sign 7: The last but not the least important. There are women who live according to just one rule: “I don’t do absolutely anything if I don’t feel like doing it right now.”

Yep I think that covers every single woman that has ever lived in there. They're all crazy.