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Why did you lie about studying social psychology? It's so obvious that you have no idea what you're talking about, referring to basic jargon as "psychobabble"
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03-24-2011, 07:54 AM
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Then charging money for it? I believe that's called being a scammer and/or a con-artist.
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Mr. Shit this is kind of skepticizm I don't like that on one side bad skeptics(ihmo) ask others for provide proves for their claims and at same time they make make claims without providing proves themself. This could be pretty good discussion and in certain moments it was. The rest was just pure arguing with few trolls appearing here and there. Peace. |
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It is defined as such by many renowned scientists, amongst them Keith Stanovich in "How to think straight about psychology". This is just childish nit-picking. I could do the same to you and say This could be pretty good discussion and in certain moments it was. Is it? Or is that just your opinion? Can you prove that? The answer is: Who cares because it's irrelevant. Skepticism is used to assess the validity of very specific claim through investigation of the evidence. I did not call Bandler a liar, so you should probably re-read my post. Other then that I've given proof for every statement I have made that has been challenged. If you are trying to invalidate this entire thread by attempting to label me as a "bad skeptic", that's a logical fallacy.
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05-24-2011, 04:25 PM
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Hypnosis is awesome, I dont know about NLP, but basically you are a big fool if you bash hypnosis. Hypnosis is the most advanced most under-rated system of Western mental-discipline, it fixes people up. I want to go into this more, but to summarize, you are a dumbass, you are an idiot, f--- you. Other ridiculous bullsh-- deserves scorn, alot of stupid sh-- has been derived from hypnosis, you dont know nothing. Placebo is the most effective medicine of all time, more humans have been cured by a placebo than any other type of medicine, why shouldnt a placebo work on mental issues? Dude, you are a dumbass, you are an unworthy piece of junk, talking about scientifically proven. Alot of things arent scientifically proven - global warming, tobacco - are you going to buy that detractor sh--? What a bunch of nonsense, you are unworthy of an intelligent response. What is your alternative? Every alternative you could mention is ridiculous, there isnt one! Being ignorant and proclaiming ignorance as the gospel, that doesnt work - western psychology doesnt work - past life therapy doesnt work - scientology doesnt work - peyote works but nobody ever claimed it would zero in on mental issues like a laser and cleanse them out. Your method - being ignorant and preaching ignorance - works - but only for you - and only so long as you are the one who defines success. Every alternative to hypnosis is a bunch of un-proven ridiculous nonsense. Go ahead and bash those PUAs.
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05-24-2011, 04:34 PM
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Thanks but these are
Really garbage and Obviously Lame Lines you've strung together. ![]() Quote:
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05-24-2011, 04:40 PM
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And tobacco isn't scientifically proven no one even knows if it's so shut up
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05-26-2011, 10:13 AM
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Hypnosis worked wonders for me in curing avoidant personality disorder. Some NLP stuff worked really well too.
At some point in your life Mr Shit, you have to try things to see what works for yourself, and not wait until Mummy, Daddy or Science gives you a green light. NLP and hypnosis will never be proved scientifically in the way you mean it; proof of their efficiency is only empirical, for obvious reasons. Everybody is unique: some stuff will work with some, not with others. It's not a problem with a skilled therapeutist who will adapt and sometimes invent a way to help you deal -because you're the one curing yourself after all- with what you want to change. That's part of life: actually living and experiencing things, instead of waiting for someone to tell you what to do and how to do it. Empirical results are numerous for hypnosis and NLP. |
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05-26-2011, 10:56 AM
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I actually did have a lot of fun resolving my issues. But you cannot go inside my head, so I can't prove that. You can only know by trying for yourself. Your obsession over being scammed is actually pretty close to the fear of failing: you need a 100% secured success path, guaranteed. A little like a PUA ebook, somehow.
If you have to wait till people tell you what to do, have fun not doing anything.
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05-26-2011, 11:04 AM
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Sounds like someone has been underestimating NLP here....
The original poster has made me more certain than ever about NLP. I gotta go. Time to trance some bitches! By the end they dont even know their names. ![]()
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05-26-2011, 11:27 AM
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05-26-2011, 11:54 AM
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I'll add that since this is a troll site, I will say whatever I want to say, and if you have a problem with that, well, shut up. ![]() NLP, as psychotherapy in general, will never be proven, because there is no way you can be 100% certain that a person telling you that she feels better actually does. You have to try things. What don't you understand about that? |
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05-26-2011, 12:05 PM
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Wonderful example of the dunning-kruger effect. If you knew anything about what it actually means that something is scientifically valid, you'd know that it has literally nothing to do with what another person tells you. Example of how stupid your suggestion is(a bit exeggerated but it's there to make a point): Why do you need someone to tell you cyanide is deadly? Experiment and drink it for yourself.
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05-26-2011, 01:32 PM
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Hey, It's the Hypno-toad!
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05-26-2011, 11:10 PM
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If learning NLP and believing that it works means that you somehow gain more confidence and in doing so increase your success with women, then your belief in NLP, not NLP per se, works.
I see nothing wrong with learning and believing in NLP if your delusion/stupidity helps you obtain what you are looking for. It's sort of like people who get into religion as a way of coping with their anxieties and life problems... their faith is what heals them... in other words, they heal themselves.
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05-27-2011, 01:59 AM
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For example, the classic film strip technique works well for phobias. Mind, its not really original idea, and its all about disassociating yourself from the situation.
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05-27-2011, 03:40 AM
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I still have to meet someone who has taken cyanide and experienced benefits from it. I don't care about your scientific proof. It worked for me. Should I throw away my real-life experience just to fit with your books? That sounds pretty PUA to me
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05-27-2011, 03:47 AM
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btw I read that dunning effect page. Interesting but I'm an exception: i am highly confident and competent at the same time
![]() It's good for you that you found a (sort of) scientific name for self-confidence though. Thereby, you remain the most knowledgeable member of a hate forum
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But since you do find psychological biases interestng you might also want to read about belief bias and confirmation bias. Pretty cool stuff.
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I'll leave it up to you to decide what's closer to the truth of this and your personal experience.
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One question:
If something (hypnosis and some NLP) works for me in terms of the result I wanted to obtain (feeling better, being generally confident about myself etc), why would I even want to test it against placebo groups or such? There is not one reality. Some stuff works for me and not for you, and vice versa. That's because it uses differents things in our minds which we do not have in common. Having experienced this stuff first hands on myself and seen it on others, I can tell you this: NLP, hypnosis and all of this doesn't even exist. There is no method, it's about getting a person to use his own mind to solve whatever self-inflicted mental wounds his upbringing has taught him to have. For some people, manipulating symbols will work. For others, rephrasing beliefs and offering new perspectives will work better. For others, just pointing out the way the person thinks will be enough to help her gain another perspective. In the end, you suffer from something when you think you have to. If you change this, you feel better. Of course there are bad therapists, and bad contents. But really, it's about the power of the human mind, and provoking placebo effect. For some people it will come instantly. Sometimes it will take a week for a person to get that "a-ha" moment where the problem just disappears. That's why stuff like NLP and hypnosis will never be proved scientifically. Which is in itself an issue, since it enables any moron to claim anything and then say that everybody's different if it doesn't work. You need to find a real professional; my therapist gave me free sessions everytime an issue wasn't solved in the first meeting or came back. That guy has a passion about helping people. It's the type of therapist we need. Contrary to hat you seem to believe, saying NLP can work doesn't necessarily equate being a blind devotee to any guru. I say NLP can work because, in my experience, the human mind can really accomplish anything. I guess i'm more of a humanist
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Whether or not NLP actually worked for YOU is actually irrelevant. What's relevant is whether or not it will probably work for someone else. When you're dealing with people who have serious mental issues, suddenly an inneffective treament isn't ethical to give (or even safe in the case of depression, schizophrenia etc). It also might take away the persons motivation of pursuing actual treatment. ("I knew it! I'll never get better.")
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Alos, some placebo do work better than others. A friend of mine, working in the pharmaceutical company, told me that if you inject a placebo and make the person pay a lot of money for it, it will work better than if you give him an inexpensive pill of actual proven cure. It's actually pretty crazy when you think about it. Lastly, the biases apply to everyone, including myself, and including you. But I know what I feel like now. I know that a year ago, I couldn't even talk to a person for more than 20 seconds without feeling terrified. I know it's not the case anymore. The funny thing is that it can either be due to the method or to the fact that I really wanted it to work. And as an answer, as my therapist says: "Who cares? If people are better because hypnosis work, because they believe it will happen or because they want to please me, as long as they are better, I am happy". Funny things happen when you realize that what you think is true is actually true. For you, that is. But you can only experience the world in your own eyes. |
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It all comes down to what you think will work, not in the objective value of the treatment, which might very well be zero. That's why hypnosis, which works crazy well on me, doesn't work on others. It's a matter of what you value. I don't believe that talking to my friends about my issues makes me feel better. But my therapist is a fucking shaman in my eyes
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Again, if you've gotten better the exact means aren't very important, but when you're recommending treatment for others or selling treatment having something that's proven to work suddenly becomes important.
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